Thursday, August 6, 2009

YOUTH AND RELATIONSHIP


YOUTH AND RELATIONSHIP

A mother plays an important role in every family. A woman can be a mother but all are not blessed mother in the Lord. A mother has more responsibilities towards her children, she is initial teacher for her children. A father is the head of the family to instruct/guide his whole family. If a mother respects her husband, her children will indeed respect their father and obey his instructions also.

Mother is like a mediator, she obeys her husband and teach her children to make their lives successful with her prayers and teaching. Then she mediates lessons and instructions from their Father to the understanding of each child. This takes lot of time,

Patience and love of Christ. The Holy Spirit helps us Moms to do all this, praise God!

All Home league members are not married or a mother.. This is so important to study in our family even though we are still unmarried. Our children are gift of God. Parents should learn how to handle this blessing from God or otherwise we would be blamed by our own children only. And later judged by Go, also.

A Christian mother teaches his child way of eternal life, he/she never forgets till he becomes old. How sweet and precious is it to kneel down and say our prayers with our dear Moms when we where little children. I remember this so well.

Jesus Christ is the Savior of the world, He saved me, then I would certainly not want my beloved children to be unsaved. Yes, I want to see all my children in Heaven.

The future of a child is depends upon a mother’s wise teaching from the scripture. A mother should be God fearing woman so that her children would be blessings for family and for extension of God’s Kingdom; as youth and when they become adults also. This is our important job and joy as Christian mothers. We can be called mom ministers.

Otherwise we will be facing to have a foolish son which could be grief to a mother. Or have a daughter that is a course to her family or future husband and church.

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY

PSALMS 111: 10.
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom;
All who follow his precepts have good understanding.
To him belongs eternal praise.

EPH. 6:4;
Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, 5for each one should carry his own load.

Ecc 12:1
Remember your Creator
In the days of your youth,
Before the days of trouble come
And the years approach when you will say,
"I find no pleasure in them"-

The wisdom comes from God only. We can find out from King Solomon. God blessed him with every blessings when he seeks for wisdom. Many youth in this generation are lack of wisdom. He feels that he is the most wise and intelligent in every aspects. He desires many worldly pleasures but when he has tried and tasted all this worlds pleasures, he becomes unhappy, disappointed, then become burden to his whole family. He desires much when he was a young person, as do the youth of today. But scriptures here in proverbs and Solomon life teaches us how empty and destructive this worlds pleasures can and will soon become. They are to teach us to remember the Creator and His will for their lives while we are young. Discipline and instructions are very important for youthful lives since the day they are small child and through all their lives.

It is the seeds of wrong actions and

Habits that get started in youth that will lead to a life time of destruction and heart breaks.

Thus, may be last their whole lives. A habit of its self is not bad, if it is a good one, like, prayer, etc.

In this generation many young people think that they don't need any guidance of their parents, they can do things on their own. They think they are grown up enough to achieve their goals. They don't even have much patience to struggle for their targets.

Some go to church or any social activities just to please and show their parents. They are much attracted to worldly pleasures. They even criticize our Bible teachings. We are so looked down upon by the youth sometimes. This is can be of our own fault. If we begin our family lives the way God wants us to, even though our children spoil their lives for sometime, they will come back to the Lord because of our abundant love, prayers, teachings and instruction. God and His Word will not be in vain. Our Bible seeds and faith, prayers, scriptures and many lessons will grow up and fruit will come. The children will remember the GOD of their youth.

Both husband and wife should be united to bring them up.

God gives us this precious gift of children made is God's own image.

We should know and understand the value of each child born to us.

We should respect them, and make habit of listening them. Many times God will use our children to correct our mistakes, we should correct ourselves, as let The Holy Spirit help us to grow and be more like Jesus Christ.

Our children have many expectations to achieve in their future plans and goals.

Being a Godly, mother, we know their hearts. They might fall into temptations, but we should guide them with love to overcome the dreadful situation of the devil and this old world.

We should teach them the expectation from the Lord is eternal. A old poem author unknown goes like this:

"Tis a short life .

Twill soon be past,

Only what is done

for Christ

Will last."

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